Anger

  01 May 2012

Article summary

Anger is one most dangerous diseases for most of the people which is unavoidable. If you are also infected by the anger let’s find out what actually cause for this dangerous phenomena of the mind.

When the number of EGO layers are growing inside the number of demands also increase.The expectation to entertain one’s own self grows with the Egotism.

The more we entertain our self, we expect things to be happen according to our wish. There arise the attachments.

The more we fails to achieve our wishes here comes the conflicts. When the things doesn’t happen according to our wish / desire here arise the “Anger”.

The beginning of the anger start from the slight conflict of thoughts in the mind / heart when we see the things aren’t happening according to the way we want. Then it can grows to a worry… pain… suffering… restlessness… stress… anger… then it can grows until strong hatred level, which step towards for the killing and commit other evil actions accordingly.

From birth to death all kind of beings are getting angry for the same reason. Think about a moment which you feels angry or sad… it’s just because of the things which doesn’t happen according to your wish. It’s same for all the beings. Whether it is an Animal or God or Brahma the anger arise in various levels for the same cause.

The more you desire, the more anger will arise… because you have the base for the anger. The more you increase the number of ego layers the more chances are there for getting angry.

So it’s important to identify the very basic reason behind the “Anger / Hatred”.

Also in the other sections of this site, we are discussing various methods and tools to be use to get rid from the anger. In here you can see the very basic reason behind your anger / hatred.

How the law of impermanence related to this emotion?

If the law of impermanency wasn’t there anger won’t arise… also anger won’t cured too. 

If we believe that the things aren’t happen according to the way we wish because of the law of impermanency… then anger arise because of the same reason… But also because of the law of impermanency that situation also passed away.  So anger aroused, anger decay and anger vanish because of the law of impermanency.  Everything arise has to decay and destroy at the end.  That applies to the anger as well. 

So, the law of impermanency seems to bring lot more good things than the bad things to life.  Then why this nature identified as a pessimistic nature? 

Why it is badly treated in Buddhism? So where we got wrong?  What we are missing?

Be wise… think wise… let’s continue with the wisdom!